Help on Pre-Wedding Jitters?

In your question, you said he was a great guy. You have known him long enough to see probably all the sides to him. He is someone you are comfortable with and love very much. I am guessing you feel he loves you as well. Getting caught up in the planning of a wedding and making things go exactly as you want them to is always stress -full. Let me help you, not everything is going to go as planned. It is inevitable. Roll with the changes that need to be made and know that you cannot control every aspect. Your new Mother-in-law to be didn't plan to go to the hospital I'm sure. If she can't attend the party, take pictures, save her a piece of cake, show her the cards etc. Even though she was unable to attend, you can still include her in the celebration, which she will probably respect your for. If you are worried about what your husband is going to do at the bachelor party then you have a problem that is bigger than the wedding jitters. Ask yourself, is he going to cheat on me at the party? If you trust this man enough to know that he would not do this than there is not problem. At a wedding, it is easy to get wrapped up in the material things, dresses, flowers, table clothes etc. What matters is that you both are surrounded by people who love you and they are there to support your union. Keep it simple, say I Do, then go have a party with your friends. It is a day in the lifetime you are going to build with the man you have chosen. Some of those days are going to be amazing, some not so much and some down right terrible. What's important is the life you share after you say I Do.